St Stephen's and St Wulstan's Church St Stephen's and St Wulstan's Church
  • Who We Are
    • What We Believe
    • Our Vision
    • Find Us
    • Staff Team
    • Church Council
    • Our Mission Partners
    • Our Buildings
    • Our History
    • 150 Years
    • How We’re Funded
  • What’s On
    • Sundays
    • Events
    • Exploring Christianity
    • Serving
  • Groups
    • Stay and Play
    • Children
    • Youth
    • Students
    • Fellowship Groups
    • Seniors
    • Cantonese Bible Study
    • English Conversation Group
  • Resources
    • About Christianity
    • Sermons
    • Thought for the Week
    • New Songs
    • Live Streamed Services
    • Safeguarding and Policies
I'm New!
5th September 2025

A theology of belly buttons?

Sunday 7th September 2025

There is neither Jew nor Gentile, neither slave nor free, nor is there male and female, for you are all one in Christ Jesus. (Galatians 3:28)

A theology of belly buttons?

The beginning of a new year can bring many challenges to our identity as we think about ‘who we are’ – the chance to forge a new identity at a new school or university.

So often our culture tells us ‘be true to yourself’ or ‘just do you’ – that as we look inside ourselves, this is where we truly discover who we are. Jean-Paul Sartre (1929-80) once said “man is nothing other than what he makes of himself. That is the first principle of existentialism.”  This idea still lingers: be whoever you want to be. Don’t let anyone tell you who you are, it’s up to you to make something of yourself.

As mentioned earlier in the summer, I am reading a  book called ‘You’re only Human’ by Kelly Kapic which reflects on our limits as humans. As Kapic notes though, our culture’s vision of creating our own meaning and value “can be so enormous and exhausting.” Yes, we do shape our lives, but this never happens in a vacuum or outside of a particular context.  Perhaps we can often have an opposite tendency as Christians though – so affirming who we are now in Christ, that we forget any sense of our createdness – our history, family background, context, what has shaped us.

So who am I? Kapic encourages us to consider our belly buttons!

“we owe our very existence to others. We all have biological parents: we are part of a genealogy and have received a particular DNA. The belly button…has profound theological importance. It is our body’s way of reminding us that we are not self-made people, we are not separate islands, we are not merely rugged individuals. Instead we are inevitably and necessarily bound together with others: it has been so from the beginning and will always be.”

Rather than liberating us, a turn in on ourselves for our identity can actually lead to great loneliness and self-doubt.

So remember your belly button – Christian, you’re not an isolated individual, but a finite creature, dependent on others; made in God’s image, yes distorted by sin, but gloriously redeemed through Jesus; being renewed by God and brought together in Christ with people from all over the world, and known by our good Creator. Praise God!

Heavenly Father, help me to remember that I am a dependent creature in need of others. Thank you that I belong to you, my Creator and Redeemer, brought together in Christ as part of your great family in all its rich diversity. Amen

With love in Christ,

Ben Wells (Associate Minister)

St Stephen's and St Wulstan's Church
Facebook Instagram

St Stephen’s Parish Office
Serpentine Road
BIRMINGHAM
B29 7HU


0121 472 8253
office@sssw.org.uk
  • Find Us
  • Sundays
  • Sermons
  • Safeguarding

An Anglican church in Selly Oak and Selly Park, Birmingham.
Registered charity number 1135051.

Content © 2026 St Stephen's and St Wulstan's Church. All rights reserved.

Powered by Greenhouse